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I got a question today with too many identifying specifics to repost but the general idea is that the poor guy is getting bullied for being a bit cocky 4 years ago. (Damn, time to forgive right?)

The standard advice is to beat up the bully but that’s insane in most cases.  Bullies typically pick on people that can’t beat them up.  Other things like staying close to teachers, traveling different paths, staying with friends work to a point but you’re still living life in fear.

What actually works? How do you solve a bully problem?

My youtube inbox is filled with the most insane messages. Some guys are about to commit suicide, some want to start their channel, others ask for girl advice.  This was the first message I clicked on in tonight’s “I wonder what’s in my inbox” session.

Hey Woody I’m 16 years old, i’ve been dating my girlfriend for six months and things are going much better than expected. I am my girlfriends first boyfriend, so I have to guide her through some things. I’ve been mostly a hit it and quit guy through high school and I have some experience with “having fun.” but I am a virgin. I want to have sex with my girlfriend. It’s not a “oh she’s hot i wanna f*** her” it’s more of a “i’m emotionally connected to this girl and i’d like to have a serious physical relationship as well” even thought she is a dime. Other things have been easier to go through with her, but this is situation is different since I lack expierience I don’t know how to talk to her about it. Her friends say she wants too, but is nervous. How do I handle this? PS homecoming is approaching:)

I don’t even know what to do with that. Am I really supposed to council this young man on how to get his girlfriend to go all the way with him?  Feel free to leave your own answer. :)